Q: Is love a choice?

I have to tell you this one is a hard one to write. I guess I only have myself to blame, I mean it’s my blog, why do I pick such hard questions eh? LoL! Actually, that’s easy, because those are the ones with life changing answers!

A: Yes….love is always a choice.

Now hear me out…..

You know me, I’m not gonna just ask you to take my word for it, let’s look at scripture.

He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” Luke 10:27 (NIV)

We might argue that when a mother holds her new born baby, she can’t help but love it. That would be nice. Fact is, our society shows that’s not the case. I’m sure there are people reading this blog who never knew the love of a parent like they should.

God is our creator, our Father. Does everyone love Him? Not only do many choose not to love Him, but battle against Him and try to deny His very existence. This is why God had to instruct us to choose to love Him and to choose to love our neighbor. (Yes…even the one with the yappy dog!)

For all you romantics out there…..wait that’s me…..love is still a choice. I know we like the ideas of falling into love, that “spark”, we were made for each other romantic well….truth. The truth is, we do fall into love, we often feel a “spark” (no comments on my cooking please..lol), and yes God Himself may have handcrafted your husband/wife especially for you but YOU still chose to love and not walk away.

If love wasn’t a choice:

There would be no abuse in the home.

There would be no one dying alone and uncared for.

There would be no poverty, because there’s enough to share.

There would be no war, because there would be no hate.

And there would be no babies abandoned on doorsteps or in dumpsters.

Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs. Proverbs 10:12 (NIV)

I feel like I should say so much more, but maybe the truth is simple, you’ll have to decide for yourselves. I leave you with this final example of the choice of love.

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.  John 3:16 (NIV)

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